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My Reasons of Zero to Less Activity

Why I was Less Active in the Past MonthHello folks,

You might have noticed my less activity and I wasn’t much interacting here and there, especially on my blog, friends’ blogs, and social media.

And for that, I have quiet the reasons.. which are… sad..

Some Relatives..

Yeah, some relatives invaded our home. My workplace, peace and every single thing to give me a boost to work, all were destroyed.

Thankfully, they are off now.

My dearest friend..

My one and only dearest friend in the real world departed.. to heaven.

He met with an accident on the way to a city called, Lahore, where the car he was traveling in collided with a trailer.

He remained in coma and died after a week since accident.

We were both great friends and it lasted for 17 years. It won’t ever finish because now our friendship lives in my heart.

He was the student of M.Phil., was the head-master of the Governmental primary school situated in a remote village and all he accomplished in the age of 27.

Living in the oven..

And that’s true. The heat is that much intense that it feels like we are living inside the oven. Hopeful it gets easy on us soon enough.

I had a post written back in the days how badly the summer affects me and how I cope with it.

That’s them! I hope to be coming back to normal in matter of days.

See me soon!

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Ahmad Imran - June 20, 2015

Adeel, really sad to hear about the loss of your dear friend and it is really difficult to get your energies and spirit together to write again with a passion.

I hope you will be back soon with a full zeal. For a blogger this is a real challenge to fight the happenings of the life while still available for his readers and audience. Good luck.

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    Adeel Sami - July 4, 2015

    Hello Imran bhai,

    I am sorry for my late response, slowly getting back to normal..

    You’re right! The more I feel the pain, the more it will push me back. So, it is really better for me to stand up and face what happened and what is going to happen in the future.

    I am really thankful of you for awarding me with supportive words! They are real helpful!

    Thank you once again!

    ~ Adeel

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Harleena Singh - June 20, 2015

Hi Adeel,

Just saw your post on Triberr, and the title pulled me here. So sorry to hear about the loss of your friend. Yes, certain things in life we just cannot get over, and they take time. God bless his soul and give his family and you strength to overcome the loss.

But as they say, those who are close to us, don’t leave us – they become angels to guide us, and I know that as I lost my Mom long back too, though she’s around me always, especially during my tough times.

I can understand how tough it can be to blog under such conditions, and the additional heat catching up in the country too. So, just take it slow, and I am sure you’d be back to your normal self in no time.

Thanks for sharing this with us, and though I’ve stopped visiting blogs and commenting because I am on a blogging ‘work’ break, as I mentioned in my last post, but I just came in to share my feelings here today. Take care and be well, and we meet once I’m back to the blogosphere now πŸ™‚

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    Adeel Sami - July 4, 2015

    Hello Harleena,

    You’re too kind!! Thank you so much for being a motivator to me in every time!

    Your words are too supportive to me that I am feeling quite good after reading them.

    He was the one I won’t forget and that he now lives in my heart.

    I am really grateful of you re-energizing me with your magical words, Harleena! Thank you so much!

    See me often! πŸ™‚

    ~ Adeel

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MOBASHHIR - June 21, 2015

Salam Adeel Bhai,

Feeling sorry for your friend. The country where we are living is great but sometime we have to face too many struggles. Specially from relative’s minds. I hope everything will be fine again. I wish to a great success.

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    Adeel Sami - July 4, 2015

    WaalaikumasalaM Mobashhir bhai,

    You’re right! We often come across with unprecedented struggles that we do want to just throw it off but we can’t due to the situations.

    Relatives are the real killer of our peace, what do you say? πŸ™‚

    Thank you so much for the visit and your contribution! I see you often!

    ~ Adeel

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M-Minhaj - June 22, 2015

Salam vai.
I am very shocked to hear about the loss of your dear friend.
Really it was a great friendship. And obviously It won’t ever finish.
We hope you will come back soon in your blogging life.
We pray for you and your friend too.

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    Adeel Sami - July 4, 2015

    WaalaikumasalaM Minhaj bro,

    Yeah, it won’t and it can’t be. I still feel of him and have no dare to go to the places where we often used to go..

    Time is the best cure to fill the wound but the pain won’t go away… ever..

    Thank you so much for the wishes, I am slowly getting to my normalcy.

    See you often!

    ~ Adeel

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Tushar - June 23, 2015

Ho,

I’m so sorry to hear about your loss. I must say your friend will live forever in your heart. I guess its time to move on and its also true that every living being on earth must have to leave this place on certain time.

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    Adeel Sami - July 4, 2015

    Hello Tushar,

    Yeah, you’re right about it. Every living being must have to return back to its creature and that was happened with my friend as well.

    He is, yes, living in my heart now and I won’t ever forget him..

    Thank you for your powerful words!

    ~ Adeel

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Emebu - June 23, 2015

Hi Adeel,

I am very sorry to hear about the loss of your dear friend. With the level of relationship you enjoyed, your friend will live forever in your heart.
However, you still need to move on and its time to move on to the next phase of your life.

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    Adeel Sami - July 4, 2015

    Hello Emebu,

    Thanks for your support, I so appreciate it!

    True that he will always live in my heart.. And that’s the reality that nothing gets to an end due to the situations one goes through. Yup, I am slowly coming back in the life.

    Thank you once again, Emebu!

    ~ Adeel

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Rohan Chaubey - June 23, 2015

Hi Adeel sir,

I am so sorry to hear about your friend. May he rest in peace and may God give his family and friends the courage the bear such a great loss. Prayers for the family.

I hope you are working to resist the heat. I think monsoon will approach the country soon. Tale care and keep yourself hydrated.

– Rohan.

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    Adeel Sami - July 4, 2015

    Hello Rohan bro,

    Amen…

    I am thankful of you wishing me these powerful words!

    Yeah, monsoon is actually about to start the next week, it is some delayed but we are hoping some pretty good downpours that will bring a relief in our lives.

    Thank you once again and I know that you’re enjoying the monsoon so much at your place! πŸ™‚

    ~ Adeel

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Saurabh Tiwari - June 24, 2015

Hi Adeel Sir,

Got this Link URL from Harleena Ma’ams tweet. First time over to your blog and what I see, Sorry to hear about Friend. We can’t control over all the thing in our life.

I hope everything will be fine soon. Take Care

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    Adeel Sami - July 4, 2015

    Hello Saurabh bro,

    Thank you for the visit! And yes, things are never in our control and cost us some really bad damages … But that’s life..

    I thank you for the wishes, things are getting to normal by the time.

    I see you often!

    ~ Adeel

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Yvonne I. Wilson - June 25, 2015

Hi Adeel

I am so sorry to hear about your loss and all the other things that you are going through. You are a fighter and I believe beyond a shadow of a doubt you will make a swell comeback and everything will flow the way that it should.

Life have many challenges, testing and trials and when we least expect it, we are affected by them. The good news though is that nothing comes to last, it comes and it passes along. Also, trials and testing help us to grow, develop and become stronger and better in life. Hope all works out well in the end.

Blessings!

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    Adeel Sami - June 26, 2015

    Hello Yvonne,

    Thank you so much for giving me courage! I so appreciate it!

    Too true that I have to pass through these unfortunate events took place recently. I was too depressed and broke that I wasn’t feeling any interest into doing anything, especially due to passing of my dearest friend..

    Time is the best healer.. So, it will heal my pain (but not I will completely forget him)..

    Thanks again, Yvonne! Your words are so powerful for me!

    ~ Adeel

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Renard Moreau - June 26, 2015

[ Smiles ] My condolences goes out to your your friends family and everyone who was affected by his death.

I am also sorry that you had to face the brunt of disgruntled relatives.

Human beings are resilient by nature; which implies: you should be back to your old self real soon!

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    Adeel Sami - June 26, 2015

    Hello Renard,

    Thank you for that!

    It is really hard to forget him but yes, time does help to fade away some sorrow..

    Thank you again for the best wishes!

    ~ Adeel

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Joy Healey - June 28, 2015

Hi Adeel

I am so sorry to hear about the death of your friend. I understand your grief, because my Mum died a few weeks ago, and I too have cut down my activity.

I have had much connection with relatives in the last few weeks, but they have supported me, not abused you like yours did.

I’m sure you’ll rise above these things in time and all your fellow bloggers will be cheering you on, as they cheered me on through my trials.

Be kind to yourself, Prayers for your loss, Joy

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    Adeel Sami - July 4, 2015

    Hello Joey,

    Oh… I am so sorry to hear about your mom.. May her soul rest in peace, amen..

    True that such loss is tragic.. heartbroken… But this is life that make us to meet such tragic losses..

    May the pain of loosing the loved ones ease on us, amen..

    I thank you for giving me such enormous support! Thank YOU!

    ~ Adeel

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Philip Verghese Ariel - June 29, 2015

Hi Adeel,
So sad to note the sad demise of your intimate friend,
Our deepest condolences to the bereaved family members.
It’s indeed a difficult thing to overcome such situation, but Adeel,
such difficulties in life are part and parcel of our life and need to cop with it.
but to co-up with and getting adjusted to it is the wonderful part of it.
As Yvonnae said: “Such things comes and pass away and the joyous
light will be visible at the other end of the tunnel, darkness to light!.
Have hope, and move forward to achieve the goals kept before us.
Take heart
All good wishes
Our prayers to you and your friend’s family members. Is he a married person?
Best Regards
~ phil

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    Adeel Sami - July 5, 2015

    Hello Philip,

    I thank you so much for the condolences.. True that it is the part of life and we cannot hold back to it forever and have to move on and forward.

    I am trying best to be back to my 100%, though I am still not at my full but reaching to it as the days pass by.

    Thank you so much for the wishes and support!

    ~ Adeel

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Carol Amato - June 30, 2015

Dear, Adeel,

I’m so very sorry about your best friend – will definitely be praying for you and the family. So very sad. πŸ™

Also very disturbing about your home being invaded, oh my! That’s horrible, but I’m glad you were not hurt!

Those conditions must be very difficult, and will pray the heat will let up very soon.

Take care of yourself, my friend, and stay encouraged by knowing your friends are praying for you.

Take Care,
– Carol Amato

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    Adeel Sami - July 5, 2015

    Hello Carol,

    Thank you so much, I so appreciate it and I really really need the prayers!

    Yes, things are pretty much coming to normal now including the weather. And I so want to join back the blogging as I have missed so much great things already..

    Thanks again, Carol!

    ~ Adeel

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Leslie Denning - July 7, 2015

Hi Adeel. It is amazing how stuff can conspire to mess up our all-too-human plans. I’m sorry to hear about your friend. I, too, lost a dear friend to a car accident in May, so I can understand how your heart is hurting.

I’ve had relatives, too, in June the first week and the last week. We hardly ever get visitors because our home isn’t on the way to anything else, so that should be it for the summer.

I’ve never been to your part of the world in the summer, but I imagine it is hot. It’s hot where I live in the summer – usually – but this year it has been rain, rain, and more rain. We had a few nice days, and now we have 4 more days in a row with rain predicted and flash flood warnings.

I hope you are feeling better by now. Life is hard sometimes, but it’s a good thing that we are resilient. Thank you so much for sharing my posts. I appreciate it.

All the best,
Leslie

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    Adeel Sami - July 8, 2015

    Hello Leslie,

    I am truly sorry of hearing about your friend.. Tragedy that we don’t even know they will leave us in the matter of days… And when they are gone, we wish we could meet up one more time… But, that’s the life with its bitter reality..

    Yeah, it turns out to be way too hot during summer but luckily and fortunately the raining season has started here a day ago so we are in bit relief from scorching heat and sunlight.

    I hope that you’re enjoying the rain and good weather. πŸ™‚

    Thanks so much for your supportive words, Leslie! I see you more often!

    ~ Adeel

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Vicky - July 8, 2015

Hey,

Very sad to hear that your friend is no more. I guess you are going through very tough days and I pray for you and your friends family to be patient in this condition.

Thanks

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    Adeel Sami - July 8, 2015

    Hello Vicky,

    Thank you so much for your prayers. We don need them so much, especially my friend’s family.

    Days are so tough that I still can’t put his face off of my mind.. Still don’t believe the incident and it has been over a month now.. Time is the best cure so it will ease the pain of losing him a bit..

    Thanks again for your support!

    ~ Adeel

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